{"id":660,"date":"2006-09-25T07:21:05","date_gmt":"2006-09-25T12:21:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/?p=660"},"modified":"2020-01-03T12:00:34","modified_gmt":"2020-01-03T17:00:34","slug":"settling-oneself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/settling-oneself\/","title":{"rendered":"Settling oneself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I was younger, I let my emotions drive my choices (often to my eventual sorrow, sigh) and I suppose I still do to some extent but at least now I make an effort to engage my emotional responses as consciously as I can &#8212; part of which involves trying to free them such that they flow their courses more easily, reveal themselves more fully &amp; thereby reveal also the contours of the landscape their flowing paints.<\/p>\n<p>Since I&#8217;m by nature a kinesthetic person this involves paying close attention to where feelings lodge. Lately I&#8217;ve also jettisoned the distinction between purely physical feelings &#8212; e.g. pain or tension &#8212; and emotions. My working theory is that there is no difference, really: the physical body acts as a tangible map of the emotions; physical sensations are simply a more intense inclination of the map&#8217;s contours.<\/p>\n<p>So I look for tools that help me bridge through my body to the emotions beneath it, and here&#8217;s one of the best I&#8217;ve found: <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2rNR2hc\">a book of exercises that combine yoga and the stimulation of accupressure points<\/a>. Awkward title, unfortunately &#8212; <em>Acu-Yoga<\/em>???? &#8212; but I can forgive that; it&#8217;s one of the most valuable books I own.<\/p>\n<p>Whether the techniques described in the book actually &#8220;do&#8221; anything is, of course, entirely a matter of speculation. Perhaps the exercises are more a way to ritualize a routine of auto-suggestion and physical relaxation.<\/p>\n<p>But it works. And that&#8217;s all that matters, isn&#8217;t it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I was younger, I let my emotions drive my choices (often to my eventual sorrow, sigh) and I suppose I still do to some extent but at least now I make an effort to engage my emotional responses as &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/settling-oneself\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,11,19,7],"tags":[1519,1517,737,1520,1518],"class_list":["post-660","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-book-reviews","category-health","category-life","category-spirituality","tag-accupressure-points","tag-acu-yoga","tag-book-review","tag-meridians","tag-yoga"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=660"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6092,"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660\/revisions\/6092"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirstenmortensen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}